يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ أَن تَرِثُوا۟ ٱلنِّسَآءَ كَرْهًۭا ۖ وَلَا تَعْضُلُوهُنَّ لِتَذْهَبُوا۟ بِبَعْضِ مَآ ءَاتَيْتُمُوهُنَّ إِلَّآ أَن يَأْتِينَ بِفَٰحِشَةٍۢ مُّبَيِّنَةٍۢ ۚ وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكْرَهُوا۟ شَيْـًۭٔا وَيَجْعَلَ ٱللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًۭا كَثِيرًۭا
O ye who believe! It is not lawful for you forcibly to inherit the women (of your deceased kinsmen), nor (that) ye should put constraint upon them that ye may take away a part of that which ye have given them, unless they be guilty of flagrant lewdness. But consort with them in kindness, for if ye hate them it may happen that ye hate a thing wherein Allah hath placed much good.
Qur’an 4:19 · An-Nisaa
Marmaduke Pickthall
Source
Qur’an 4:19 · Surah An-Nisaa · Ayah 19
Marmaduke Pickthall
Source text checked 2026-09-14.
What It Means: Reading in Context
The selected passages include companionship, mercy, household life and prayer for family. They are a starting point for thoughtful reading, not a substitute for advice on the rights and responsibilities of marriage. Keep each quotation connected to its full verse, particularly where a passage discusses more than one matter. The English is a translation of meaning; use the source link to compare translations and consult qualified scholarship for detailed interpretation. Our reflections encourage everyday care, communication and kindness. They do not determine what anyone should do in a difficult or unsafe relationship, and should not be used to pressure another person.
REFLECTION · EDITORIAL
Pause over the words, read their surrounding verses, and choose a small constructive action you can take today.
This reflection is not Qur’an, hadith or an authoritative tafsir.